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No you are right, you will never love the "same". I in no way feel about Dave like I did with my ex husband. But I can tell you from experience that all the "love" and trials I went thru with my ex prepared me to know that when I met Dave he WAS my soulmate...immediatley. There is nothing that says there isnt more than one soulmate for a person.
I "thought" my soulmate was my first husband, but spending 16 years with him taught me that I was dead wrong.
Whether or not thats true....I will agree with Charlatan on one thing....Mourn from the relationship...but also take the opportunity to learn from it. Remember the good but learn from the bad.
I'm so so sorry for how you are feeling right now. Cry it out, dont try to hold it in. There is nothing that says you cant still care about him...and maybe you always will. I still care about my ex hubby but thats the extent of it.
You are going to get hurt again in life, thats just the way life works. Expect it, but dont be scared of it.
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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