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I don't really believe in the concept of a soul mate. A relationship is either working or not. The idea that you are destined to spend your life with any one person is a construct that does more harm than good.
The emotion LOVE can wreak havoc if you let it (not to say it isn't good to just give in an enjoy).
When I married my wife I refused to take a vow that would commit me to loving her forever. I promised to love her a much as I could for as long as I could.
So far, I have been in love with her for almost 20 years.
So Mandy, I am suggesting that if things didn't work out. You should be sad about the loss. Mourn for a relationship but then pick yourself up and find someone else. It may take time, but that's how it works.
You will love again.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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