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Originally Posted by lankrypt0
While I agree relying on a list is sort of stupid, I don’t really agree that asking a woman what she likes or doesn’t like is the correct method either. I can only imagine asking making things awkward and a bit of a turn off. If a woman asked me what I liked or didn’t like, I would immediately think that she was inexperienced and won’t know what she is doing.
In my opinion, the real key to pleasing someone is learning body language and paying attention to the noises and motions they make. While it is great to enjoy the act of sex, be aware of what’s going on and don’t get completely lost in what you are doing. Pay attention to the person, that normally will guide you in what he or she likes and does not like.
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I cannot disagree with this enough. Communication is SO key during sex. Just because a man or a woman knows "what to do" doesnt mean that their partner either A. Likes it or B. Likes how they do it. I am not ashamed at all to tell a guy that what he's doing is doing nothing for me and I would prefer it such and such a way. Why waste both of your times "going along for the ride" when you're not enjoying it?
"Noises" can be misinterpreted actual saying what you want and dont want cannot