I asked my mother this question and she said she would take another day with her father, to ask if he thought she was doing okay. I told her I felt I didn't need that kind of validation from my grandfathers; they would be proud of me no matter what. She did understand why I would choose the money, though, and agreed that neither of my grandfathers would speak to me if I chose otherwise.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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