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tenniels · 05-13-2007, 07:36 PM

I don't know if you would be competing with him for his sister. Does his sister want him back? Do you want to be with someone who wants to be with his sister? I agree with ratbastid in the sense that if he hasn't acted on it, it's not AS bad is if he had, but the fact that he is vocalizing his fantasies about his sister and sniffing her underwear it worrysome. You say he probably said he wants to do it will she's sleeping because she likely wouldn't consent. Do you think that it's okay for a guy to do this to a girl (sister or not) without her consent? Are you comfortable with the fact that he seems to think it would be okay to perform a sexual act to someone without their consent? If you feel you have to compete for his affections due to his liking for his sister, I think that's a big ol red flag.

05-13-2007, 07:36 PM	#20 (permalink)
tenniels Insane Location: Oh Canada!!	I don't know if you would be competing with him for his sister. Does his sister want him back? Do you want to be with someone who wants to be with his sister? I agree with ratbastid in the sense that if he hasn't acted on it, it's not AS bad is if he had, but the fact that he is vocalizing his fantasies about his sister and sniffing her underwear it worrysome. You say he probably said he wants to do it will she's sleeping because she likely wouldn't consent. Do you think that it's okay for a guy to do this to a girl (sister or not) without her consent? Are you comfortable with the fact that he seems to think it would be okay to perform a sexual act to someone without their consent? If you feel you have to compete for his affections due to his liking for his sister, I think that's a big ol red flag. __________________ I like things. And stuff. But I prefer to have things over stuff. Last edited by tenniels; 05-13-2007 at 07:38 PM..