In the UK you have to live seperated for 2 years before you can file.
Personally I'd say split totally for a month or two.
Agree to a new therapist.
Assume that you will be appart for between 6-12 months even if things work well.
Don't date until you feel that you can't manage without dating.
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Forgot to say.
Do things for you. If that makes things work for HIM or you as a couple then great. But do things for YOU first.
Compromise is essential in relationships, but too much compromise is a disaster.
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Comes willowing across the sand;
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Last edited by Daniel_; 05-10-2007 at 11:41 AM..
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