tenniels

To me it sounds like she doesn't know what she's supposed to be feeling, ya know? I think it would be great for her to do some research about male and female anatomy, what happens during sex, etc and then start to explore her own body to find out what feels good. YOU DON'T KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY!! As for the pain, I know that at first things can be a little uncomfortable, I mean, nothing has been in there before! Unless it's a shooting or sharp pain, I wouldn't be too worried about it. It wouldn't hurt though for her to go and have a complete physical and address these concerns with her doctor and have everything down below checked out. Also, if you're going to finger her, follow what spectre has said. So many guys have no clue what to do with their fingers, they end up jamming them in and it ends up hurting and/or being completely useless. I don't blame this totally on guys though, girls need to speak up and say, hey maybe try this instead. Communication is key. Anyways, keep us posted!

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