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1. Like will said, your mother-in-law is probably stressed, too. If you think you can talk to her up front without it becoming confrontational then you should probably try to talk with her and set her at ease. If not, then let it wait until after the wedding. After all, you are marrying her daughter - not her. I do think you should have a long heart-to-heart with your fiancee about it though and be sure you are both in position to present a united front.
2. Never wait 3-4 days to hear a call back on an open job position. You should be on the phone the very next day to introduce yourself and follow-up. Especially if the competition for jobs is fierce.
Good luck with everything. But, I'm sure once you're settled into the marriage your mother-in-law will settle down, too.
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