bloody_rose20

Just thought I would add in here real quick. Me and my man know eachother in and out. He goes through my stuff and I his. Not to be nosey, but just because. Like we share a computer and we both know eachothers pin numbers and all our passwords so its not a big deal because we really don't have anything to hide from eachother. And the one who said now that you acted that way when she was just playing around, she will be sneaking through your phone to find out why you acted that way. I can garuntee if you left her alone she would have taken a picture of herself for you (that be if you have a pic phone) or she was gonna leave you a little message for you to recieve later on. The fact that you acted like that, she has lost a little bit of trust in you. If you have that much of an issue with someone touching your things, then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship. Because relationships are about trust and if you have nothing to hide, then so what if she looks through your phone? Maybe actually opening up to her might help instead of being closed off. Being in a relationship means whats mine is yours and whats yourse is mine. At least a good relationship is like that. But, everyone is different I suppose.

Also, after just reading what you wrote, you see now that you did overreact. I mean come on, if it was the other way around and you decided to just look lets say just at her wallpaper on it and she freaked out and grabbed it out of your hand. What would you think and how would that make you feel? I am sorry you guys did not work out, but she lost trust in you and therefore she felt not secure. As for her running back to the duche that was mean to her, she only went back to the last person that showed any feeling towards her. I dunno why some women tend to do that. For future reference, if you don't have anything to hide let them go through it, they will see they can trust you and like i said, she wasn't probably snooping. And also, if you do have something to hide, better to get it out in the very beginning or else she will eventually find out, believe me, we always find out, becuase it will be 10 times worse if you don't tell her and she finds out on her own.

Also, after just reading what you wrote, you see now that you did overreact. I mean come on, if it was the other way around and you decided to just look lets say just at her wallpaper on it and she freaked out and grabbed it out of your hand. What would you think and how would that make you feel? I am sorry you guys did not work out, but she lost trust in you and therefore she felt not secure. As for her running back to the duche that was mean to her, she only went back to the last person that showed any feeling towards her. I dunno why some women tend to do that. For future reference, if you don't have anything to hide let them go through it, they will see they can trust you and like i said, she wasn't probably snooping. And also, if you do have something to hide, better to get it out in the very beginning or else she will eventually find out, believe me, we always find out, becuase it will be 10 times worse if you don't tell her and she finds out on her own.

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