Who's right or wrong here?
K so.. picture this.
online gamers, guild of about 300 people from a large MMO.
once upon a time, a couple of 5 years strong, (me and my ex) both in this guild, both made friends. yearly routine of going to a gaming convention.
one day, girl leaves this couple to get with some guy who was also in this guild.
girl, and guy she gets with, quit playing game.
then I quit for a while, get my life sorted out, pick the game back up somewhat off and on, but still play.
convention time again. I like going to the convention for the sake of the convention, im a gamer, I enjoy this stuff, 3 years running.
assume that her, and her new guy do too, thats fine. I have no issue with them going to the con.
however, a post from the new guy basically says his intent is to wind up at our hotel (along with my ex)
I flat out think they aren't invited, considering they both live in the area, they have no reason to be at my hotel (even if there is a party in my room)
she thinks i'm being silly, I think neither of them are welcome.
I donno what to do or how to handle it. I just wanna have a good time, new memories and such, take lots of pictures, and I don't want to have to see them in my pictures for group shots or whatever, to look back at my pictures over the summer and have my new experiences tainted by old foul memories.
so, who's to know how I should deal with this?
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