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Originally Posted by Charlatan
There is also a big difference between judging beauty based on pure aesthetics (such as photos) and meeting someone in person (or even considering someone for a relationship - I might find someone beautiful but have a relationship with them? Hell no).
I can see where you are coming from on this. However, if I were to list in order what I find attractive, it would first be the ineffable qualities such as "self-confidence" and "attitude" then it would be the elements of physical beauty.
In the end it is a mix of the ineffable, the physical and that other thing called compatibility. Sorry I can't be more specific on this but attractiveness is not easily quantifiable (unless we are talking about her lips wrapped around my cock... in which case I agree with WK).
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Totally agree on almost every point(the cock thing, not so much-I've seen me in that position
). I know, personally I'm not the same in person as in photos; the scenario would/should be amended to if they both walked into a room with equal confidence, the one noticed first and foremost would be the latter, but that doesn't mean she won't go home alone.
There are different levels/degrees of confidence and where that confidence comes from. In either gender, one could walk into a room with the confidence that they look good, but if all that comes out of their heads is hot air, well...bleh!
Perhaps the fact that so many said 'confidence' can't really quantify it either; it's one of those 'a-ha!' things-you just know it when it's there. Strength rarely speaks.