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Originally Posted by mandy
i get that its not a trust issue to some people but to others it is and maybe that girl was hurt once before and when he blew up at her for wanting to look at his phone something inside her clicked that "this has happened before" and then the son just escalated the whole thing.
but after two months and you don't know much about this woman, could you blame her really? i mean, she might not even have known that he didn't like it and to be perfectly honest with you guys...she shoulda asked first. but none of us know whether she did it sneakily or playfully...so, she might have had some trust issues but if he really liked this girl he would've communicated better.
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Your right that she was screwed over before. And I did over react about it. It ended up making her trust me less. Even though up until that point, I hadnt done anything to her to make her question my motives or feelings.
We both are to blame for how it all went down to be honest. Our relationship went down hill pretty fast after that. We arent even on speaking terms right now. I thought it was going to work out for a while and that we might give it another go, but then i found out she went sleep over at a guys house in his bed the night after we broke up. I knew she went see him. She told me that and I got over it mostly. It bothered me because he tried to hook up with her before and treated her like crap. When we first got together, thats all I heard about. How he was mean and hurt her, etc. But it wasnt till we were hanging out again that I found out she slept there in the same bed. She didnt tell me that right away. When I found that out, I left pissed and she turned it into a reason for her to be mad at me because I left like I did something wrong. It would have been one thing if the guy was just a friend, but he tried to use her before we got together. basically only wanted one thing. They messed around but never went all the way. She was a virgin. So the fact she went to him the night after we broke up made my mind race and she got mad because I didnt 100% trust her and that she didnt do anything. She told me she just wanted to talk to someone and he was the only male she could talk to and I was cool with that. I believed she didnt do anything, but i know he tried stuff with her and the thought of someone trying stuff in a bed with your ex of 1 day hurts a little. But yet I was wrong for being mad. I think she is just a classic manaphobe. I know I have some issues, but if Id gone to a girls house and slept there the night after she broke up with me, she'd never believe nothing happened.
I dont know why I even typed all that lol. It all just went down and Im just a little down over it all. Probably made no sense at all with what I just typed.