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oh, she definitely shouldn't have lied about the unprotected sex. about that, i would have lectured her ass too. have y'all been tested, per chance? might not be a bad idea. i didn't mean to sound harsh earlier, so here's my point, cut and dry. you're going to have make a choice; roll the dice on this little fila and maybe get fucked, or cut and bail now. furthermore, you're going to have to decide what kind of person you're going to be; the person who checks up on your so, your friends, your family by snoopery and the like, or someone who doesn't. either way, you're going to get fucked sometimes. in my opinion, at least if you're not doing the snoopery, at least you get some sleep. i've found that in the long run, the snoopery usually has very little influence on what happens. if they're shit, they're shit and you'll eventually find out.
if she goes out with the ex high school flame and doesn't tell you, it doesn't mean jack shit other than she went out with someone and didn't tell you. and particularly given that its only been a month; shit...after a month of seeing a girl its quite likely i do a lot of things she won't have any idea of. that's why intimacy and trust are earned, not given.
so it all amounts to either drive yourself nuts and hamstring the relationship now, or chill out and maybe it turns to shit later.
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