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To put the situation more precisely,
After the first time she lied to me, she cried and told me she "would never lie to me again"
Then she lied to me the 2nd time.
I had asked her "I thought you said you would never lie to me again." She had nothing to say, and I let her off easy b/c at that point I had really liked her alot..
I just spoke to a counselor and she told me that "once a person tells you they would never lie to you, and then lies to you, they are a liar and you cannot believe them again".
I thought it was pretty harsh, what the counselor said, but as much as I hate to admit it, I guess it is the truth.. however, the counselor also told me about young women and the stigma of premarital sex, so possibly a reason why my gf lied in the first place.. but the counselor said the 2nd lie has no reason.. she should not have lied the 2nd time considering her promise not to lie.
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