This relationship is doomed. You've doomed it by snooping on her and assuming things about her past that may or may not be true. You've doomed it by not trusting her, and not trusting her to trust you.
If you want to fix it, 1) come clean, and 2) no more snooping. Your girlfriend is entitled to a private life, whether you like it or not, and after a month, you really have no reason or place to presume.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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