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Originally Posted by Kaziglu
Every single one of you who's been giving reasons for it to be cut or not to be cut just need to shut up. If you REALLY want to find reasons to cut or not cut your son or sons go out and ask at least 10 different women (from different groups, not all 10 hanging out together) if they mind uncut men. If 50% say they prefer cut men to uncut then you're screwed enjoy :P. If more then 50% say they prefer cut men to uncut because it's *insert one of the many reasons people say uncut is bad here* then there's your answer. I say there's your answer because unless you're planning on having a gay son (being gay isn't bad but most guys aren't so chances are yours won't be) then you might want to get him cut so that he can have a better chance to get ass.
Don't you think it'd scar your child more if he had a girl look at his uncut penis in disgust then to be cut when they're so young they will have no memory what so ever of it even happening? Yes, lots of women (never met one) are fine with uncut penises, but don't you think just having that one woman look at you in disgust because you're uncut would be bad enough? I know from experience (talking to girls :-O) that a lot of girls have never even seen an uncut penis, and when I showed them one (not mine, picture online) they thought it looked either A: Hilarious B: Nasty or C: Like a turtle poking his head out of his shell. I will have my son or sons be cut that way they will never have to experience the pain of having a girl laugh at them, OH WAIT! they probably will, so I guess I'm doing it to (if one never laughed at you hooray for you) the option of being laughed and or denied by a girl for being uncut.
I have a cut penis and seriously, to me I think it'd be annoying to have one that is uncut, I don't want to have to actually pay attention when I clean down there to make sure I get between my "magical helmet" around my penis. The mere fact you all are bantering back and forth about "uncut is betta!" "no! cut is betta!" is retarded, IT'S YOUR OPINION, stop trying to change others opinions because for some reason you feel the need to express how proud you are of your uncut and or cut cock. (that last part goes out mainly to the people talking about their uncut penis and how they're so proud of it, seeing as most the guys posting who are cut give THEIR reason for liking it, and not reasons for cutting your kid or not cutting your kid) ... *snip*
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So...the only real reason to have a circumcision or not is whether chicks dig it? I would hope that any son I may or may not have (actually all sons) is raised to be secure enough in himself that if some woman bases their entire perception of him on the way his penis looks then he is smart enough to send that shallow bitch packing.
Also, it's not really simple at all. The bottom line is that circumcision is unecessary, in the sense that people who are uncircumsized (the way they are born) live long perfectly happy, perfectly normal lives independantly of having their foreskin left intact. Because it is unecessary, if you want to have it done to your son you should have some justification for it. There have been justifications provided, it provides more ease with hygeine to have it removed and there may (I have yet to see any conclusive evidence either way) be some medical benefit. The question is do the benefits merit the procedure?
Wait...it
still isn't that simple because a circumcision can be performed at any age. Our future sons may one some input on the matter, after all, it is their penii we're talking about here. Some say as a parent it's their right and the kid doesn't get a say, others say it shouldn't be the parents decision when it's perfectly reasonable and possible to wait and let the kid decide for himself. Also it's much easier to have a circumcision than it is to undo one.
So the question is now pretty complicated. For me? Basically it is unecessary, and the potential benefits don't really amount anything. The decreased risk of HIV is so miniscule compared to things like safe sex practices. If you don't
know if the girl has HIV, and you just have to have sex with her, wrap it up. There is no excuse not to. I'm willing to bet good money that whether or not you were circumsized is going to be the sole determining factor for whether or not you get HIV about 0% of the time. Also, the hygeine thing just lets you be lazy, if you can't handle cleaning up your toys everyday, maybe you shouldn' t have them

. Also, if the kid wants to have it done, then they can, I see no reason not to let them make up their own mind. So unless the future wife has a serious opinion that swings other way no slicing up any of my sons.