Is it just me, or does it sound like they BOTH need some growing up to do? If yo uare in a relationship with someone, and care for them, you should trust them until they PROVE to be untrustworthy. If you give them a second, or third chance, then you STILL need to trust them until they prove you wrong. Snooping about in e-mails and "testing" the person is NOT conducive to a good, solid relationship. It will be doomed for failure. If you can't trust her, then end the relationship now, before someone does something REALLY stupid.
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