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Originally Posted by JinnKai
"Trust issues"? Bullshit. Did you not read the story? She lied about dating the other guy, she lied about having unprotected sex with him..
It would be a "trust issue" if it were unfounded. Right now, it's just that she's a liar!
I agree with you on this one match.. after the garbage at the beginning, I see no reason you should trust her in this instance..
And quite frankly, I'm not sure while you're still with her.
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I'm still with her because she told me she told me she was falling in love with me and she constantly calls me to talk and tell me she loves me.. and when it comes down to it, all I want is a girl that I can love and that loves me (and me only) just as much back.. and I thought I was getting that.
The Ex thing, if she actually goes out with him (takes him places) 1-1, and she DOES NOT tell me... then I will know the truth, that she still likes (loves?) him..
If she *does* go out, and tells me, at least thats a start.. But I will tell her that I am not happy that she is hanging out with her ex.
Today I had a potluck dinner with some of our mutual friends (including single girls), and when I told my gf about it, she was like "uh huh" and sounded kind of jealous. I said: "What, I'm hanging out in a group, and I would never go out 1-1 with another girl." I waited for her to tell me about her plans to see her Ex if he went back home, and she paused for a second to think, but didn't tell me whatever was on her mind.. I asked "whats on your mind", and she said "oh nothing"..
I tested her, and she failed..
I'm thinking of a pre-emptive talk and telling her that while I am here alone, I do not go out 1-1 with girls, and that I think she should do the same..