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First and foremost... learn from this experience. If you pay attention and don't get caught up in the drama, there are a few key lessons that will help you out in relationships tremendously later on.
1. While they are justified in this case, I agree with Sultana that you have some trust issues. When it comes to relationships, guys and girls might as well speak different languages because what you mean to say is rarely what she will hear (and visa versa). Misunderstandings happen ALL the time, and you have to give them the benefit of the doubt or else you'll drive yourself crazy trying to dig up the absolute truth. Always remember that there are two sides to every story, so don't assume anything.
2. Acting like a father figure in a relationship, especially one so new, is a sure way to push her away and end up single. Successful relationships are based on balance, and talking down to her and lecturing her (whether justified or not) disturbs that balance and will cause you both to get "hella annoyed/confused".
3. This girl is obviously deceptive and has no shame in hiding things to get what she wants. You do not want to date this type of girl. Period. End things gracefully then call her in about 3 or 4 years and see if she has matured... that is the best option you have if you want things to work out with her.
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