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Originally Posted by Sultana
Hello, that does not sound like she was seeing the first guy when he asked her if she was seeing anyone. Maybe he meant to ask if she was a virgin?
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Sorry I don't really understand what you mean. When I asked that, I meant, "are you dating someone now or recently?" To which she replied "No. " Which was a lie since it was mid-March and she saw that guy from Feb to mid-March.
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Originally Posted by Sultana
"Used her"? A) where do you get off telling her anything like that, and B) she needs someone else to tell her she was being "used"?
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Sure, I may be a bit presumptuous to do so, but her 4 close friends (2 girls 2 guys) got mad at her for going out with this guy. One of the four, her very best friend, got so mad at her (he's gay) that he spent about 30 hours arguing with her. Eventually they all gave up and just let her have her way (go out with him and yada yada).
When I appeared on the scene as a "suitor", her friends all liked me and gave her the go-ahead for me..
PS. They didnt' like the guy b/c he didnt meet my gf in person. He creepily sent a pick-up line facebook message and then they had a long message exchange after that. Her friends found the guy so creepy they hated him. They met him in person and he was extermely condescending.. her best friends' opinions were he just wanted to use her for sex. Which is true, since after he met a few other girls, he messaged them the same type of facebook pickup-line message..
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Originally Posted by Sultana
Wow. Being super mad at your gf (although I can understand being mad if she said she didn't have unprotected sex, and then had sex with you, although you haven't stated if that was the case), explaining to her how she was being "used", you sneak and read her texts to others, talk about *testing* her...to me it sounds like you are more her dad than her boyfriend, and that doesn't sound like a good/satisfying situation for either of you.
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Yes, I agree, I am kinda like a 'dad' aren't I. I care for her alot. Alot. I don't feel happy at all having to sneak read her messages. But I can't help it. I'm feeling a lack of trust.. Just when we were doing good, she had to send a reply to her Ex that sounds like she still has feelings for him (exact wording):
"REALY!!!! You HAVE to let me know if you come here okai???? I'll take you to...errhm....places in ______!!!"
What am I supposed to do? Hella annoyed/confused right now...