Guys, muscular tears are different than tissue tears. If it's the tissue tearing, you've still got risks of infection, but it doesn't mean that you'll never poop right again. It's not something I'm at all interested in, but if it's your thing, have fun.
yotta, just have him go slow and take his time. Or you can spend some time on your own getting ready for him beforehand. Apparently butt plugs can be worn for a decent amount of time, and that may be what you need to stretch yourself. It might also work for your female partner, if she's willing to give them a try.
If you have multiple partners, you need to make sure that all of you are using barrier protection every single time, otherwise you're going to be swapping a lot of STD's. Barrier protection means condoms, either male or female. Also, no swapping of toys without either condoms or a thorough washing with soap and hot water. If they're dishwasher safe, use one.
Finally, its interesting that the tenor of this thread changed so quickly when it became male-on-male anal sex versus male-on-female.
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