Originally Posted by Sharon

I don't know, sometimes it just seems appropriate. If you're with your partner, tied up, and he's doing things that are overwhelmingly pleasurable, moaning "Stop..." but clearly enjoying it can be VERY erotic.

I for one find play-resistance a huge turn on. I love feeling like I "fought back" a little, but in the end had to submit to his sheer masculinity. I *DON'T* mean actually being raped... but the fantasy is very powerful.