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well, i'd say you're up against trust issues that you simply have to confront. people will be people. if you can't trust her, due to her personality or your own, then i think you've got your answer. but i wouldn't keep seeing someone if i felt like i had to check their email all the time. i mean, frankly it wouldn't get to that point, because i wouldn't check someone else's email to keep tabs on them.
out of context, the first thing i can understand; perhaps she thought you meant "seeing someone at the time." as to your interpretation, in that the guy "used her," perhaps she wanted to be "used." no one likes to hear that, and very rarely will a girl admit if, particularly if you're clearly interested in "dating" her and the guy she was with before was interested only in fucking her. i've run into it before myself. the second one sounds like something she isn't/wasn't proud of, and maybe wanted to not admit to herself. regardless, something is sounding very not right in a relationship where y'all are hung up on previous relationships / encounters and you're feeling the need to interrogate her about things. its a setup for bad times. cold pricklies. no fun. i'd say either decide to go all in and support her, realizing she's human and may fuck up or not live up to whatever your expectations of her are, or bail now and find someone you're more compatible with.
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