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match000 · 05-01-2007, 06:45 AM

Ahh.. here is the reason I am snooping. I had a HUGE PROBLEMS with her from the get-go.. which I did not talk about on TFP:

Before our relationship started as bf/gf, I asked her if she had been seeing anyone else. Answer "Nope. No other guys."

2 days into relationship, caught her messaging some guy. Pressed her about it. Found out in Feb, she had been seeing him. He was 27. She wanted him to be bf. He said no. He still took advantage of her multiple times (sex) and used her. This was all 1 month before *our* relationship started..

So she lied to me once, that she had not been seeing another guy.

I got super mad. Lectured her. Told her he used her. Etc.

So I asked her if she had used protection. She said "yes".

Then later I coerced more details out of her. Found out he had UNPROTECTED sex with her. I got SUPER SUPER mad. Explained to her the health risk (STD's), since up till then she had only been worried about pregnancy.

So second time she lied to me.

Yes. I got super mad. Considered breakup, etc. I couldn't take the lost of trust or lack thereof. But I said I would try again, since she promised she would "never lie to me again" and would be "as best a gf for me as she could".

05-01-2007, 06:45 AM	#4 (permalink)
match000 Psycho	Ahh.. here is the reason I am snooping. I had a HUGE PROBLEMS with her from the get-go.. which I did not talk about on TFP: Before our relationship started as bf/gf, I asked her if she had been seeing anyone else. Answer "Nope. No other guys." 2 days into relationship, caught her messaging some guy. Pressed her about it. Found out in Feb, she had been seeing him. He was 27. She wanted him to be bf. He said no. He still took advantage of her multiple times (sex) and used her. This was all 1 month before our relationship started.. So she lied to me once, that she had not been seeing another guy. I got super mad. Lectured her. Told her he used her. Etc. So I asked her if she had used protection. She said "yes". Then later I coerced more details out of her. Found out he had UNPROTECTED sex with her. I got SUPER SUPER mad. Explained to her the health risk (STD's), since up till then she had only been worried about pregnancy. So second time she lied to me. Yes. I got super mad. Considered breakup, etc. I couldn't take the lost of trust or lack thereof. But I said I would try again, since she promised she would "never lie to me again" and would be "as best a gf for me as she could".