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Originally Posted by Sharon
I don't know, sometimes it just seems appropriate. If you're with your partner, tied up, and he's doing things that are overwhelmingly pleasurable, moaning "Stop..." but clearly enjoying it can be VERY erotic.
I for one find play-resistance a huge turn on. I love feeling like I "fought back" a little, but in the end had to submit to his sheer masculinity. I *DON'T* mean actually being raped... but the fantasy is very powerful.
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Caveat: this would generally be with a known partner or at least someone who knows what to expect, right? Not someone you just met who might not understand that you are playing.
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