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Originally Posted by MrFriendly
Understood,
But why say stop in the first place if you don't mean it?
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I don't know. Maybe he was giving her whisker burns and she meant to move on to something else.
I answered with physical traits earlier, and basically described my husband. I've been married before to someone with a totally different body type, but 'above' is what I like now because I'm married to him.
Here are some turn-ons and turn-offs that I thought of, and they have nothing to do with looks whatsoever. **Some don't apply when I first meet someone, *but most do.
Turn Ons:
** rubbing my back while I go to sleep
* holding hands
* can agree to disagree and not feel a difference of opinion is an attack.
* opens doors for women
* has both male and female friends
* can cook, but does not criticize mine
** scrapes ice off my car so it's clear when I go to work. Even if he leaves before I do.
** on a cold day, he'll run a bubble bath for me so it's ready when I get home from work. (if he gets home before I do)
* a genuine laugh, not held back.
* slow dancing without groping
* can take 'no thank you' for an answer without a lengthy explanation.
* asking me where I'd like to go, but having a plan because I ususally don't care where we go.
* Understands I don't like large, loud crowds of people that I don't know. Doesn't press and try to help me 'get over it'. (hey, I'm old and set in my ways)
* good personal hygeine. Take a shower. Don't bathe in the cologne afterwards, it gives some of us headaches (just like the new car stereo you have)
* eye contact (but not leering), especially if he is smiling.
Turn Offs:
*lying. Especially if he can look me in the eye and lie. I would not know when I could trust him after that.
* public groping. There's a time and a place for that. I don't even like seeing the couple in the next booth acting like they are in a motel. Kissing is one thing.
* when a guy is obviously ogling over women when he is with another women. I don't care if he is with his sister. It looks bad.
* bad mouthing his mother. making a saint out of his mother.
* yelling and swearing, especially at me.
* can't stand to be around kids.
* expects others to be perfect. Especially when he makes no effort to be the best he can be.
** throwing dirty clothes on the floor for someone else to pick up.
* a chronic complainer/whiner. Everything is always everybody else's fault.
* hitting, shoving, roughness, even in jest. (some women like it; but it's a BIG nono for me)
* acting as chauffer for an ex-girlfriend. Once is fine if she has a flat tire, but then she really needs to find someone else.
* excessive drinking, alcohol breath. I hate 'kissing a liquor bottle' Ew.
* degrading jokes. If you wouldn't tell it to your mother, don't tell it to me.
* not believing me when I say that I can't dance. And pressing me to anyway. (hint: if you don't take simple no's earlier, what kind of no's are you not going to accept later??)
* Not taking 'no' for an answer. If I'm not yet ready to give out my phone number, and a guy presses me, he will NEVER get it. I have been known, however, to give him the number of my gynecologist
Hey, why does it say I'm an 'upright'...when I'm clearly sitting down??