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Originally Posted by james t kirk
That's a little bit of a silly leap.
Though I find it perhaps telling that you would somehow read rape into that statment. Never the less thanks for your insight.
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Yeah sorry dude, I didn't mean that to sound has harsh as it did.
But I stand by the point I was trying to make. If you live by the logic that every woman means the complete opposite of what she says, then you're opening yourself up to some pretty dangerous territory. So what happens when you meet up with a girl and you both get a bit drunk, things start to happen but all of a sudden she changes her mind and says no. By your reasoning she really means yes, and this is where things can go bad. Yu see where I'm coming from?
I'm not trying to imply that you would ever do this, I'm just trying to point out the flaw in your statement.
I agree completely with 777. You really can't make assumptions about anyone regarding anything. I've always been completely taken by surprise by people, even people I know very well. And the fact of the matter is ALL people can learn to change.
Any how, I'll stop derailing the thread now :-)