Wow, and just when I was getting some pointers here, this thread turned into a flame war. Personally, I found this one insightful:
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=12053
Now in the past I've made serveral opinions about people. How they behave, what they really mean when they say "x" in response to "y", etc. And I have been wrong 9 of 10 times.
And that's great. It's helped me keep an open mind about these things. What I have noticed is that when a person holds a strong belief, they will continually look for evidence to suport it, and zealously discount anything against it.
Ladies, Gentilmen, (and James T Kirk) forget everything you know about women, and go out and meet more people. You'll be surprised with what you find.
And remember, women are people too.