Originally Posted by lurkette

Okay, so you're not interested in engaging with other people, you have no clear direction, you're resigned to living with your parents, who aggravate you and apparently dictate your actions, and you're not interested in doing something that will help you feel better because you're "lazy and don't want to bother"?

At some point you're going to have to take responsibility for your own life and well-being. You're the one who can make you feel better, and you seem to have no interest in doing so. You know what to do, but you're not interested in doing it. You might ask yourself, "why?"

College is over, hon. You have to grow up sometime.