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Has it ever occured to you that perhaps your attitude of suspicion and distrust that verges on disrespect is the reason you have not found (or allowed yourself to recognize) many females who disprove your negative stereotypes?
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I've noticed that the eye-candy kind of women are the kind that kirk is talking about. Oh they want "integrity" and "sense-of-humor" - bullshit. They want 6-pack abs and Brad Pitt aesthetics. They want hot. No two ways around it.
And most of the time it's because they know they're exceptionally attractive themselves. It's what they're consistently complimented on (their attractiveness), so they believe that other people hold it at high regard. Similarly, they think they should be with people who are 'hot' because it's now become important to them.
I (unconsciously) like the eye-candy type because they're hot and typically imaginary. I consciously like the average attractive and above-average attractive women because they're not boring as hell. Whoever said it above had it very right - sex can only happen so often, and there's gotta be something else there to fill in the gaps.
From what I've seen, no TFP woman is "eye-candy" hot. I'm sorry, but it's my perception - most are attractive or above average attractive, but no J Lo's or Kate Beckinsales on TFP.
BUT because of that, you can pretty reliably say that what they're listing is probably what they ACTUALLY like, not what they're saying they like. They've actually been complemented on things other than their own appearance, and thus value those other characteristics in men.