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Originally Posted by Halx
It's very rare to find a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and who knows what she wants. Hell, it's almost impossible.
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But they're out there, my friend.
*warning* temporary thread hijack *warning*
A couple of years ago I made a commitment to settle for nothing less than exactly that. I had "settled for less" in the past and it just brought me misery.
My ideal woman would be trusting and trustworthy, emotionally generous and perceptive with social grace, unashamedly romantic to the core and unrelentingly passionate with her mate. I have those qualities myself, so it's not inconceivable to think there'd be a woman out there for me.
So I dated around but I didn't screw around. I wasn't looking to just get laid - I got that out of my system years ago. I was committed to complete sincerity and open expression because I was looking for more.
After more than two years of fruitless dating - more than two years of
complete celibacy (Yeah, it got really tough) I might have found the woman of my dreams.
We've been together for a few months now so it's still early - but we've covered a lot of territory in that time. It's really bizarre because she was doing the same thing I had been doing ... and we somehow met. Both of us still can't believe what we've found in each other.
For me she's the most complete woman I've ever known ... and she's similarly dumbfounded in me. I've never met anyone else who even comes close to her. Everything about her is beautiful and sexy. I can't begin to describe how deep the compatibility runs - but you can imagine. I'm still smitten and completely in love.
Neither of us is perfect - but so far we're just about perfect for each other. We both love our jobs and we're both successful. Starting this weekend we will be spending the next two weeks in Italy driving through Tuscany.
So don't give up hope.
Work out your neuroses and become a
real man. Then go and find yourself a real woman. Good luck!