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Originally Posted by james t kirk
Please.
I was reading these responses from the women and my first thought was, "man, they are so full of shit"
Seriously.
All the women I know will list the same characteristics, however, the fact of the matter is that women find a good looking guy sexy. They are just so damn coy about it. It's like they don't want to look shallow or something.
I wish I had a dime for all my artsie female friends who say "integrity" and "confidence" and "intelligence" is what turns them on, and they are set up with a guy who has all of that in spades. When you ask them how the date went, the frown and say, "there was no CHEMISTRY" What the hell is "chemistry" other than pure and simple sexual attraction - her ovaries turn on because the guy is hot.
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At least twice in my life I have fallen for guys that, when seen by my friends, got an 'ew' as their commentary. Yes, chemistry is about sexual attraction, not physical attraction. There's a difference.
We can say physically, we're attracted to a certain type of look, but if that look has nothing behind it, the 'attraction' won't follow.
If all we were after is perfection, we'd buy a statue. And those that are after physical perfection (as defined by media, etc) are doomed to be disappointed and lonely.