sense of humor that matches mine is first and foremost, I say matches mine because to me "sense of humor" does not include thinking farting is funny nor is "bathroom humor" that turns me off faster than a lot of other things
Kindness, not just to me but to everyone. Someone that automatically takes other peoples feelings into consideration.
A man that reads books, specially the same kinds of books I read (well other than romance lol I dont expect a guy to read romance books) But I LOVE reading a book and him reading the same one and being able to talk about it afterwards
A man thats not afraid to cry, I have no use for men that think thats not "manly" because in shanifaye's book...the ability to let go and cry in front of me is a must.
Protective, not in the macho "I'll beat so and so's ass" kind of way, but a man that truly understands the "why" when my feelings have been hurt.
oh and another thing I love is a man that will admit he likes chick flicks
and will watch LMN with me and not complain and actually sniffle a time or two if its called for.