mixedmedia

Scars are not a problem.

Intelligence

Sense of humor (the blacker and more obscure the better)

Open mind (which naturally seems to follow intelligence and a good sense of humor, but just in case)

Confidence

An interest in their personal appearance, but not an obsession (aka, good hygiene, clean clothes that fit)

Good taste in books, music, movies is important to me...can't deny it. If a guy tells me his favorite movies are the Die Hard series, I simply can't fuck him

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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce