I think Baraka_Guru has explained why we have drifted off topic. Some of us have done it to make a point. Admittedly my point was couched with tongue in cheek humor
The differences between the sexes are largely culturally influenced. We give the little girl a dolly and a stroller to play with. We give the boy a hammer and a cap gun.
The real difference between men and women is in large part caused by societal pressures, and therefore your question must be called into (cough) question. Especially since we can all think of examples we know personally that reverse the "laws" for want of a better term that you put forth in your argument. You're trying to stereotype 7 billion people into 2 pigenholes. I think that's disingenuous.