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Originally Posted by MrSelfDestruct
Nobody touches my stuff without my permission because it's my stuff. Maybe it's because I grew up with (and still live with  ) a snooping mother who can't stand not knowing everything about me and where I am, what I'm doing, etc, maybe it's because I was picked on a lot as a kid and kept to myself, maybe it's just the way I am, but my stuff is private. |
so, are you saying that you will never let your SO take some money out of your wallet for you or one day you're not home and you need something on your computer, you're not going to call them and ask them to to and look for it for you?...i grew up with a mother who snooped (who still snoops) and ho wants to know everything about me.
its just that...and i personally don't see what the big deal is. that is just my opinion and it differs from a lot of you guys.
but just because i let my SO go through my stuff and don't really care about it, doesn't mean that i am not a private person or a person who doesn't like time at alone.
i get that its not a trust issue to some people but to others it is and maybe that girl was hurt once before and when he blew up at her for wanting to look at his phone something inside her clicked that "this has happened before" and then the son just escalated the whole thing.
but after two months and you don't know much about this woman, could you blame her really? i mean, she might not even have known that he didn't like it and to be perfectly honest with you guys...she shoulda asked first. but none of us know whether she did it sneakily or playfully...so, she might have had some trust issues but if he really liked this girl he would've communicated better.
and again, please may i state this, that this is my OPINION. i am not trying to make anyone see it my way or any other way...its what i think and thats that.