I wouldn't even flirt unless the girl initiated it. If a person is just there to get gas - even a slightly flirtatious approach can get read as "this guy is creepy."
This isn't so much the case if you were living in Europe, however. I'm an American to the core but I've spent a few years living abroad and this is one area they've got over us - fewer hangups about sexuality.
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"I do believe that, where there is only a choice between cowardice and violence, I would advise violence. Thus when my eldest son asked me what he should have done, had he been present when I was almost fatally assaulted in 1908, whether he should have run away and seen me killed or whether he should have used his physical force which he could and wanted to use, and defended me, I told him that it was his duty to defend me even by using violence." - Mahatma Ghandi
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