Originally Posted by cadre

I flirt and I always have so I can relate to her perspective. My boyfriend and I have been together a long time and he knows how I am and has no problem with it. Granted I don't flirt much when I'm with him because I usually have other things to be doing.

Anywho, for me it's just how my attitude is, for a long time I didn't like to call it flirting but deep down I know it is so I won't deny that. It makes you feel pretty and sexy and all that which is something I like about it. I find that in long relationships both people tend to slowly stop doing the things that make the other feel sexy and all that so maybe that is why she does it and maybe if you tried that it would keep her flirting with you instead of someone else. This is how it would work for me at least.

Think back to when you were dating and compare that to now. I know some men think that after a while they don't have to do/say things to make their SOs feel good but the reality is you do, at least I think it really helps relationships because if you don't they will go find that somewhere else (like from the guys she's flirting with).

I hope that makes sense, let me know if you have any questions.


Haha, yes that would be great. You should try that.