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We have talked very frankly about it. She said when she was younger she had a hard time fitting in with the other kids. Then when she started to blossom all the sudden guys paid attention to her and she thought it was the greatest thing. She then used it as a social tool. Now she says it's just part of her interaction with people in a casual social situation. She pointed out that she also flirts with girls which she does. She is just a "party girl" type I guess. What is ironic is that she says the reason she fell in love with me is that I treated her like a person and wasn't just out to get a piece. I guess I hate to see her acting like "just a piece". As I said she stopped for a time but the way she did it was to stop going to social gatherings. That's not the answer either, it just caused her to blame me for not having fun.
I guess what I'm trying to figure out here is this a problem with me or is she doing something inappropriate? I talked to one of the other wives husbands about it and he just said, "If his wife wants to flirt he just let's her." To me that sounds like he doesn't care for his wife too much. Not to mention isn't it a natural male instinct to chase off the other males?
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