What it eventually boils down to is that everyone has different levels of personal privacy. Some people love being around others, and need almost no time 'alone.' Others (introverts) need more 'alone time' to sort out their bidness.
Likewise, some people are comfortable sharing everything and anything with anyone who wants to know. Others have certain things that are there private areas, and they don't appreciate others invading them.
The point is not to go invading other people's personal space or personal time willy-nilly, until you know exactly what THEIR boundaries are, not yours.
That's what his girlfriend did, and thats why I think it's a problem.
Seriously....
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