It doesn't bother me enough to divorce her. That seems a bit of an extreme response. She did stop for a time be drifted back again.
Her flirting usually goes like this. She sits next to a guy and starts teasing him about something he says and the teasing usually escalates to having sexual undertones. Or the usual bending over in front of guys. At a party this weekend she was wearing a pretty short pair of shorts and a guy commented on her toe nail polish, she lifted her foot up and while she wasn't showing anything it was very close.
It bothers me because she's married to me. In general guys are stupid and when a woman flirts with them they instantly assume they want to have sex with them. Which then leads them to assume I'm not making her happy. When girls flirt with me I stop it because I respect her. I want to send a clear message that I'm happily taken. The wives of the other couples we hang out with do the same thing so I guess she is just joining the crowd. Maybe I'm just a stick in the mud but we're both a few years from being 40 and I would have hoped she'd be done acting like a 20 year old by now.
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