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Seriously, i really don't get what the big deal is with going through your SO's wallet, or computer, or whatever else...
healer lets me play with his phone all the time...and i let him play with my phone all the time. if i need to get something out of my bag and i'm not close to it, and he is, i'll ask him to get it for me ...and he won't bring me the whole thing, he'll bring me the exact thing that i asked for.
if he needs something out of his wallet that he can't reach...he'll ask me to get it and again, i'll just get the thing that he asked for.
fine, i get what everyone else is saying...but personally, to me, it's about trusting your SO and especially yourself, so that you are able to let them do that and so that they are able to think they can without being worried that you'll flip your lid.
seriously...
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