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Abaya and her hubby and just like Dave and I, especially the surprise stuff lol We only have one bank account and as most people know, you cant have two paypal accounts with the same bank account, so when its surprise time I have to log in to his email to foward and delete the paypal notification or else he knows exactly what I've found him on ebay before Im ready for him too. W
We know the passwords for everything each of us has passwords for, this is done for two reasons. 1. if anything should happen to either of us we can access anything we might need to (example if I got hit by a truck and he needed to make our online payments, handle the checking acct, get to the email address book to let people know etc) 2. When dave is out of the country somewhere without internet and needs me to access something for him I can. The difference is...we dont take advantage of it. I dont go around reading his emails etc unless he ASKS me to.
IF he needed to use/access my phone he would be more than capable, yes there have been one or two times we've had to do it on both sides out of necessity. We both have people that send us porn pics of themselves and if we want to share we forward them to each other, I dont need to login to his account and check up on him. I trust him 100% and he does me as well.
Anyone who knows us, knows we are about as open as two people can be, we were just both brought up to respect another persons privacy, and know without a doubt if there is something to share....it will be done...no ifs, ands or buts about it.
The main difference here than the OP? We have been together almost 4 years, not 2 months and we are married. I would NEVER dream of being with someone two months and go through their stuff. But as Sultana pointed out...WOMEN dont need to do that, thats part of what being a grown up is about
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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