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Originally Posted by daretodream
As a result of growing up with brothers, I don't really apply this double standard. When I hit a guy, I expect him to hit me back, and vice versa.
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Precisely. I am an only child, but I grew up playing with boys more than girls, and I liked the rough 'n tumble. I hated girls being... well, girly. My husband and I get into frequent wrestling matches (unrelated to sex, believe me!) and we both love it. He knows that if he tries to tickle me, he's gonna get it back just as bad, and vice versa. It's something I love about our relationship... that we don't adjust the way we treat each other simply because of "gender." (Although we do adjust the way we fuck, but that's physically necessary.
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