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from what i read and see in the media i feel that we're just living in a more narcissitic, permissive society...we may get laid more...but are we happier? my mum and dad seem happy, and i know they've both only slept with 2 people and have given each other total commitment. i totally understand what you are saying, that all men don't think alike, this is true, but whether it includes marriage or not, don't most people want a soulmate?
the simple fact is i feel as if my partner has run away from commitment, got scared, when what i wanted was a discussion. it's hard to plan your life when you don't know what your partner is looking for. i hope you don't feel i'm being a loser here, i am in fact a very strong, assertive woman, i am just looking for some different viewpoints on my experience to help me think things through.
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