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Originally Posted by calibrich
Im pretty much screwed now with the way I reacted. She already had trust issues with guys and I thought I was finally making headway for her trusting me. I think I just threw all that out the window even when I explained my reasoning
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Well, in hindsight if you had not flipped out that probably would have helped but it's too late now. One of the biggest things that helps Joe and I is to try to remain calm when something gets to you, SOs don't respond well to yelling and such in my experience so just try not to do it again. (easier said than done, I know)
Other than that, explain to her as simply (and as calmly) as you can and if that fails have her read this thread. I agree with Shani there, you are not the only one who feels that way and maybe she just doesn't realize it.