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My cell phone, my desktop, and my laptop are my space. I don't have anything to hide, and she knows I have porn. They are MINE, and I very extremely sensitive if someone else gets anywhere near them. There are passwords, websites, conversations, etc.. they aren't particularly personal but they're still mine, and should be treated just as a journal would.
I don't think there's anything at all wrong with it.
My girlfriend has the same space; I dont think she's be comfortable with me using her computer or looking through her text messages.
It's all about trust, and trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. Everyone has their "private" things.
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