you need to tell her that, as a girl, the reactions of those around her will be directly related to her actions. If she thinks that she shouldn't be hit, as a girl, then, as a girl, she shouldn't be doing the hitting. When she actively places herself outside the normal ranges of decent behavior (not hitting others) then she should expect the same response back, whether she's a girl or not. THAT is gender equality par excellence.
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