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Originally Posted by SEAVER
First off you people would NOT have the same opinion if this were a woman who was not ready for sex.
That alone is the worst part about this thread in my opinion.
He's not ready, he said he's not ready and you pressure him like a horny teenager trying to feel his first boob.
That being said, don't ever let him get away with calling you sexually dysfunctional. You're not, sex is awsome and is pivitol in relationships.
I think Abya takes the cake in this thread. Yes, sex is extremely important. Yes, you are acting like an out of control teenage boy putting the pressure on this guy who has issues. Yes, he needs some sort of counceling, if he refuses it will cause the end of the relationship later on.
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To be honest, I take extreme offense to that statement. In my opinion, if a guy was performing oral on a girl, and she refused to reciprocate, saying it was too intimate, and she didn't want to, but still let him do it to her, I would STILL say the same thing.... SHE in this case, wouldnt be ready for a relationship.
ANYTIME someone in a relationship allows ANY activity, but won't return it, is not ready for a relationship at all.
So to lump everyone into such a blanket statement is rude.