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Originally Posted by abaya
Yep, real simple. Too bad the dude seems to have no problem receiving oral sex... hmm, guess those blow jobs aren't too immoral for him, compared to everything else.
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Maybe I'm the only who read this bit:
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Originally Posted by Aphrodite83
Anyway... yeah, the lack of oral sex reciprocation is really starting to bug me. I told him I think it's selfish and not fair. He said he doesn't want to do it because it's "very intimate." So I said, "Then why did you let me do it to you only 4 weeks into our relationship?" And he responded, "Maybe I shouldn't have let you." So the ultimatum of, "If you don't start doing this, I'm going to stop doing it to you," is only going to backfire in my face.
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That statement coupled with the fact that she doesn't do it to him very often shows that not only is he not into oral sex as you might like to believe but also that he does feel guilty where it's concerned.
I strongly believe that people only read what they want to read.
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Btw, who the hell said ANYTHING remotely like this? Quotes, please?
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You know, it's rather easy to quote one sentence and take it out of context. I do believe I said (Twice now) that if she loved her boyfriend as much as she said she did, that she would respect his decision to wait until marriage. If she chooses not to wait and continues to pressure her boyfriend into doing something he doesn't want to do, then that shows just how much she 'cares' about her boyfriend in relation to her wants and desires.
And, you know, I can't help but shake the feeling that some of you guys (And gals) responses would be different if this were a guy talking about his girlfriend not being ready to have sex.